Relationship
I've come to realize that at the heart of ministry, it’s all about relationships. Not programs, not platforms—just people. For me, it starts with being willing to meet others right where they are, no expectations, no pressure to change first. Just an open heart and a genuine welcome.
But I’ve also learned that real relationships—deep, meaningful ones—aren’t always easy. They come with challenges, mistakes are made and misunderstandings happen. And yet, I’ve seen how those moments can actually become opportunities for growth when I choose to face them with humility, prayer, and the wisdom Jesus gives us in Matthew 18. It’s not always comfortable, but staying respectful and committed to working things out makes all the difference.
When we live that way, something beautiful happens: the church starts to feel like a true family. Not perfect, but real. Joyful. Strong. A little glimpse of what heaven’s family must be like. And honestly, being part of that kind of community is one of the greatest gifts God has given me.
Proverbs 18:24
“A man who has friends must himself be friendly.”
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.
— Ephesians 4:2-3
True ministry begins with friendship (Proverbs 18:24). But lasting relationships also require humility, patience, and love—just as Ephesians 4:2-3 reminds us. When we welcome others as they are and stay committed through challenges, we reflect the heart of Christ and help build a church that feels like family—a glimpse of heaven on earth.
Building relationships with the youth of our pathfinder club while serving as their coach for Pathfinder Bible Experience.
Rock climbing on a church campout where the bonds of friendship were deepened around the fire and on the hiking trail.
So it is through personal contact and association that men are reached by the saving power of the gospel. They are not saved in masses, but as individuals. Personal influence is a power. We must come close to those whom we desire to benefit.
— Thoughts from the Mount of Blessings, p. 36